George V. Reilly

How to talk to people you disagree with

I came across an in­ter­est­ing post on Medium earlier tonight, How to talk to people you disagree with.

It can be hard to have a fruitful con­ver­sa­tion with people you’re at odds with, especially online.

Jeremy Caney has 10 sug­ges­tions:

  1. Leave the insults at the door
  2. Understand what’s driving their views
  3. Speak to their values
  4. Know what you’re talking about
  5. Ac­knowl­edge when you’re wrong
  6. Stay focused on the issue at hand
  7. Be prepared to take heat from your team
  8. Don’t expect ca­pit­u­la­tion
  9. Know when to walk away
  10. Be mindful of the onlookers
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